I’ve been so busy, I haven’t had time to breathe, I’m working on my final year project and it’s so crazy, collecting data in this country is near impossible, I’m really considering doctoring my figures.
Nyways my love life is still going down hill, all the good guys in naija are either taken or TAKEN, for real ooo, it’s really bad. It’s like I should give up on this man thing and learn how to be alone. Funny thing is, when I had a boyfriend, I had so many guys on my case and it was really annoying, as soon as the guy left, the toasters left with him too. Single life in this country can be very annoying sometimes, most of my friends have boyfriends and its like they don’t have a life outside the boyfriend thing, for example, we all went to the cinema and I was like lets see 300 and they were like “I want to see that with my boyfriend”, (I really thought they all planned it to make me feel bad). Maybe I should look for a blog honey, hmmm.
This bloody election thing is just messing a sista up, I wanted to go see 300 at the cinema tomorrow (by myself), but I had a function today which has been postponed until tomorrow cause of the no movement thing. I’m sure by next Sunday it would be out of the cinema (Sunday is the only day I have for me). I hope no one planned their wedding for today tho.
I’ve come to the conclusion that O is looking for a booty call (I’ll let you know how I figured that one out at a later date) and he aint getting it here, so I’ve decided to let that bird fly, but the nigga is just sooooooo foine, its too bad tho.
I’ve been working out at the gym, trying to get fit for the summer, I haven’t gotten down to the diet part yet, but one step at a time abi. I hope I drop some poundage, cus right now I’m a bit too bootylicious, if you know what I mean.
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Monday, April 16, 2007
Story of O....
Elections were aite even though my candidate did not win, I’m taking solace in the fact that it wasn’t koro, nyways election gist will come later, this is the story of O, the nigga I’m currently crushing on.
I went to see a friend one day, some of his friends were in his crib and I spotted one of them, he was looking really foine and shit and I’m thinking to myself, why haven’t I seen this guy before, that’s how both of us started checking each other out while pretending to watch T.V.. Suddenly, NEPA (or PHCN as they call themselves now, like it makes a difference) took light, you naij peeps will get me, nyways the power went out, it was still afternoon so there wasn’t any need to switch on the gen, so everyone just started gisting and I was getting to know O. It was getting hot so O took his shirt off (at this point I almost died, I was practically gasping for air), the boy is sooooooo hawt I just wanted to lick him all over. Nyways, after that day, I became a regular at this friend’s house and O and I have become good friends. So, I was going through his phone and I saw some texts from a particular girl (I know her) and some from other girls but I didn’t ask about it cus I didn’t want to seem nosy or anything, that’s why I aint sure if he’s got a girl. Everytime I see him with a girl, it’s never the same one twice, but I’ve never seen him with his most regular text buddy.
One day, were in my friends house and everybody else went off to get food. We were alone, it was dark outside and the lights were off, we started talking and I don’t know how we got to asking each other our most sensitive spots (I’m really shy, so I was just trying to be funny), nyways abracadabra and we kissed and kissed and kissed, it must have been like 30 minutes (he’s like the best kisser in the world). Everyone came home and we acted naturally.
We started giving each other goo-goo eyes after that, but he was sending me mixed signals, today I think he likes me, tomorrow I think he just wants to be friends. Nyways we were at a party in a friends place and after a while I was pretty wasted, he was supposed to drive down to the palms to get more drinks and he asked if I wanted to come, and I was like sure (big mistake), somewhere along the way, I told him I was in lust with him (when I remembered the next morning I wanted to kill myself, still hoping it was a dream) and I think he kissed me. He hasn’t said anything to me about anything if you know what I mean, he calls me and we just talk about regular stuff, I think I like him more now cus he’s not falling at my feet (sick, I know), since then, we’ve had like two goodbye pecks and nothing else. I’m really frustrated, I wish I could just ask him wasup (sometimes I feel like he’s waiting for me to ask) but it may seem like I was reading something that was never there, someone please HELP!!!!
I went to see a friend one day, some of his friends were in his crib and I spotted one of them, he was looking really foine and shit and I’m thinking to myself, why haven’t I seen this guy before, that’s how both of us started checking each other out while pretending to watch T.V.. Suddenly, NEPA (or PHCN as they call themselves now, like it makes a difference) took light, you naij peeps will get me, nyways the power went out, it was still afternoon so there wasn’t any need to switch on the gen, so everyone just started gisting and I was getting to know O. It was getting hot so O took his shirt off (at this point I almost died, I was practically gasping for air), the boy is sooooooo hawt I just wanted to lick him all over. Nyways, after that day, I became a regular at this friend’s house and O and I have become good friends. So, I was going through his phone and I saw some texts from a particular girl (I know her) and some from other girls but I didn’t ask about it cus I didn’t want to seem nosy or anything, that’s why I aint sure if he’s got a girl. Everytime I see him with a girl, it’s never the same one twice, but I’ve never seen him with his most regular text buddy.
One day, were in my friends house and everybody else went off to get food. We were alone, it was dark outside and the lights were off, we started talking and I don’t know how we got to asking each other our most sensitive spots (I’m really shy, so I was just trying to be funny), nyways abracadabra and we kissed and kissed and kissed, it must have been like 30 minutes (he’s like the best kisser in the world). Everyone came home and we acted naturally.
We started giving each other goo-goo eyes after that, but he was sending me mixed signals, today I think he likes me, tomorrow I think he just wants to be friends. Nyways we were at a party in a friends place and after a while I was pretty wasted, he was supposed to drive down to the palms to get more drinks and he asked if I wanted to come, and I was like sure (big mistake), somewhere along the way, I told him I was in lust with him (when I remembered the next morning I wanted to kill myself, still hoping it was a dream) and I think he kissed me. He hasn’t said anything to me about anything if you know what I mean, he calls me and we just talk about regular stuff, I think I like him more now cus he’s not falling at my feet (sick, I know), since then, we’ve had like two goodbye pecks and nothing else. I’m really frustrated, I wish I could just ask him wasup (sometimes I feel like he’s waiting for me to ask) but it may seem like I was reading something that was never there, someone please HELP!!!!
Friday, April 13, 2007
ELECTIONS!!!!!
Tomorrow is the gubernatorial elections, everybody who lives in Lagos should please vote for Jimi Agbaje, he’s the best man for the job. If anybody saw the debate between, Koro, Pedro, Fashola , and Jimi would easily see that Jimi is the most intellectual of the four, the guy will do things in this city. Some people are saying he’s in the wrong political party and I go its not about the party, it’s the person. Most young people are not voting because everyone has kind of given up, its like, they are going to rig anyway so why bother wasting my vote, in 4 years, we need to do something like the vote or die thing p.diddy and some other peeps did in yankee, maybe that will make more people vote. Remember, vote for Jimi Agbaje (JKOK).
I should be so lucky
There’s this guy I’ve been seeing for about a month now, he seemed to be a really nice guy, he’s really cute and looks like he couldn’t hurt a fly. The other day, he told me to drop him off at a meeting he had and take his car, he said he‘d call me when he was ready and I was like cool. While I was driving after dropping him of, I saw a friend of mine strolling, so I picked her up and offered to take her home, we then had this conversation.
Friend: whose car is this, it looks somewhat familiar
Me: it’s a friends car, I think he stays near your house
Friend: oh yea, its J’s car right, I hope he aint trying to toast you or anything
At this time my brain was already getting hot, but I needed to know where she was going to
Me: nah, we just friends, why do you ask
Friend: well, he has this girl B, he’s been dating her for like 4/5 years, but she left the country to go get her masters degree, she’ll probably be back in September or so.
I assured her he wasn’t putting the moves on me and we talked about other things
Now I’m fuming inside, am I supposed to be his sub since his girl aint around, after I dropped her off, I had to go home and collect my thoughts, what should I say to him? How should I confront him? Various questions were swirling around in my head, I had to lie down cus I was getting a bit dizzy.
He finally called me to come get him, I didn’t know what to say to him all the time we were in the car together, he sensed there was something wrong and he kept on asking if I was okay, I told him everything was fine. I finally confronted him a few days later. This is how it went.
Me: come over, we need to talk
J: is everything okay
Me: everything’s dandy, just get over here ASAP, bye
He pulls up in front of my house and calls me, I tell him we aint about to have an indoor conversation, so I’m coming out (he’s getting freaked).
Me: do you have a girlfriend ( I just dive right in)
J: it’s complicated
Me: just the answer I’m looking for, it’s either yes or no, those are your only two options
J: it’s not that simple baby
At this time, he goes into a 1 hour monologue about some shit I cant remember and after much pressure from me, he finally says yes but they are having problems, blah blah, I was like it’s either you’re in a relationship or not whether you’re having problems or not, if you wanted out, you would have been out. He finally left after telling me I’m the only one that means anything to him and some other crap like that.
After some careful FBI work, I found out not only are they not having problems, but the chic is sporting an engagement ring given to her by my so called man, I was bewildered. I found out it was a done deal, he’s the one paying for her masters, and he spends time with her family on a regular basis.
This is definitely a hopeless situation, the problem is that I already have feelings for this guy and it’s hard to move on. I met O and I thought he would bring me out of my misery but that is another story on its own, was supposed to write O’s story today but I veered off, I’ll do that in my next update hopefully.
Friend: whose car is this, it looks somewhat familiar
Me: it’s a friends car, I think he stays near your house
Friend: oh yea, its J’s car right, I hope he aint trying to toast you or anything
At this time my brain was already getting hot, but I needed to know where she was going to
Me: nah, we just friends, why do you ask
Friend: well, he has this girl B, he’s been dating her for like 4/5 years, but she left the country to go get her masters degree, she’ll probably be back in September or so.
I assured her he wasn’t putting the moves on me and we talked about other things
Now I’m fuming inside, am I supposed to be his sub since his girl aint around, after I dropped her off, I had to go home and collect my thoughts, what should I say to him? How should I confront him? Various questions were swirling around in my head, I had to lie down cus I was getting a bit dizzy.
He finally called me to come get him, I didn’t know what to say to him all the time we were in the car together, he sensed there was something wrong and he kept on asking if I was okay, I told him everything was fine. I finally confronted him a few days later. This is how it went.
Me: come over, we need to talk
J: is everything okay
Me: everything’s dandy, just get over here ASAP, bye
He pulls up in front of my house and calls me, I tell him we aint about to have an indoor conversation, so I’m coming out (he’s getting freaked).
Me: do you have a girlfriend ( I just dive right in)
J: it’s complicated
Me: just the answer I’m looking for, it’s either yes or no, those are your only two options
J: it’s not that simple baby
At this time, he goes into a 1 hour monologue about some shit I cant remember and after much pressure from me, he finally says yes but they are having problems, blah blah, I was like it’s either you’re in a relationship or not whether you’re having problems or not, if you wanted out, you would have been out. He finally left after telling me I’m the only one that means anything to him and some other crap like that.
After some careful FBI work, I found out not only are they not having problems, but the chic is sporting an engagement ring given to her by my so called man, I was bewildered. I found out it was a done deal, he’s the one paying for her masters, and he spends time with her family on a regular basis.
This is definitely a hopeless situation, the problem is that I already have feelings for this guy and it’s hard to move on. I met O and I thought he would bring me out of my misery but that is another story on its own, was supposed to write O’s story today but I veered off, I’ll do that in my next update hopefully.
Thursday, April 12, 2007
At Last!!!
Hey, I’ve been reading other peoples blogs for a while and I’ve always said to myself, when I have the time I’ll start a blog of my own (you don’t want to know how long I’ve been saying that). I cant be as funny as naija fineboy (at least not on paper), I can only write about the going ons of my life which could be really boring sometimes.
A little bit about me, I live in Lagos, I’m in Unilag but I’ll be done in a few months (Thank God), I’m a regular girl living a very regular life.
Back to why I chose today to start my blog, some guy who we’ll call O blew me off today, was so angry I had to go for a long drive so that I could get some air. This is how it went.
O calls and I pick up
Me: hey, wasup
O: nothing, wasup with you
Me: nothing
O: what are you doing
Me: I’m at home watching T.V.
O: come and chill with me, I’m bored
Me: my car is in the shop
O: walk down, it’s not that far
Me: okay, I’ll see you soon
Five minutes later my phone rings again, by this time I’m already on my way
Me: hey
O: hey, hope you haven’t left your house yet
Me: uhmmm, no not yet
O: okay cool, I’m about to go get something real quick, I’ll give you a holla when I get back
Me: aite, no problem, bye
5 hours later, still no call back, by this time my car was back, that’s when I went for the long drive. I’ve got a mad crush on this O guy and I don’t think he gives a shit, its really sad though. I’m sure there will be more trivia concerning O, so watch out, I need to write about how we met and what has happened till date, I’ll do that in my next update. Oh yea, O may have a girl, keep in mind that I said may, I aint too sure yet.
A little bit about me, I live in Lagos, I’m in Unilag but I’ll be done in a few months (Thank God), I’m a regular girl living a very regular life.
Back to why I chose today to start my blog, some guy who we’ll call O blew me off today, was so angry I had to go for a long drive so that I could get some air. This is how it went.
O calls and I pick up
Me: hey, wasup
O: nothing, wasup with you
Me: nothing
O: what are you doing
Me: I’m at home watching T.V.
O: come and chill with me, I’m bored
Me: my car is in the shop
O: walk down, it’s not that far
Me: okay, I’ll see you soon
Five minutes later my phone rings again, by this time I’m already on my way
Me: hey
O: hey, hope you haven’t left your house yet
Me: uhmmm, no not yet
O: okay cool, I’m about to go get something real quick, I’ll give you a holla when I get back
Me: aite, no problem, bye
5 hours later, still no call back, by this time my car was back, that’s when I went for the long drive. I’ve got a mad crush on this O guy and I don’t think he gives a shit, its really sad though. I’m sure there will be more trivia concerning O, so watch out, I need to write about how we met and what has happened till date, I’ll do that in my next update. Oh yea, O may have a girl, keep in mind that I said may, I aint too sure yet.
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