I should be so lucky

There’s this guy I’ve been seeing for about a month now, he seemed to be a really nice guy, he’s really cute and looks like he couldn’t hurt a fly. The other day, he told me to drop him off at a meeting he had and take his car, he said he‘d call me when he was ready and I was like cool. While I was driving after dropping him of, I saw a friend of mine strolling, so I picked her up and offered to take her home, we then had this conversation.

Friend: whose car is this, it looks somewhat familiar

Me: it’s a friends car, I think he stays near your house

Friend: oh yea, its J’s car right, I hope he aint trying to toast you or anything

At this time my brain was already getting hot, but I needed to know where she was going to

Me: nah, we just friends, why do you ask

Friend: well, he has this girl B, he’s been dating her for like 4/5 years, but she left the country to go get her masters degree, she’ll probably be back in September or so.

I assured her he wasn’t putting the moves on me and we talked about other things

Now I’m fuming inside, am I supposed to be his sub since his girl aint around, after I dropped her off, I had to go home and collect my thoughts, what should I say to him? How should I confront him? Various questions were swirling around in my head, I had to lie down cus I was getting a bit dizzy.
He finally called me to come get him, I didn’t know what to say to him all the time we were in the car together, he sensed there was something wrong and he kept on asking if I was okay, I told him everything was fine. I finally confronted him a few days later. This is how it went.

Me: come over, we need to talk

J: is everything okay

Me: everything’s dandy, just get over here ASAP, bye

He pulls up in front of my house and calls me, I tell him we aint about to have an indoor conversation, so I’m coming out (he’s getting freaked).

Me: do you have a girlfriend ( I just dive right in)

J: it’s complicated

Me: just the answer I’m looking for, it’s either yes or no, those are your only two options

J: it’s not that simple baby

At this time, he goes into a 1 hour monologue about some shit I cant remember and after much pressure from me, he finally says yes but they are having problems, blah blah, I was like it’s either you’re in a relationship or not whether you’re having problems or not, if you wanted out, you would have been out. He finally left after telling me I’m the only one that means anything to him and some other crap like that.

After some careful FBI work, I found out not only are they not having problems, but the chic is sporting an engagement ring given to her by my so called man, I was bewildered. I found out it was a done deal, he’s the one paying for her masters, and he spends time with her family on a regular basis.

This is definitely a hopeless situation, the problem is that I already have feelings for this guy and it’s hard to move on. I met O and I thought he would bring me out of my misery but that is another story on its own, was supposed to write O’s story today but I veered off, I’ll do that in my next update hopefully.